We exist in two worlds, the internal and the external, and try as we might, we will never be in complete control of that which lives and breathes outside of us.
So focus inwards.
Hold yourself accountable for the thoughts and actions that come from your inner self.
Recognize that you yourself are also a being in search of belonging and significance in this life and that you cannot give what you do not already have.
Take the time to find within yourself that place of worthiness, because nobody else in the world is going to find it for you.
Understand that you are worth much much more than the pain, regret, anger, frustration, or fear you may be feeling, and that you can never be defined by what others think of you unless you give them permission to.
Don’t give them permission to.
Don’t let yourself be controlled by negativity.
Assert control over the only world you can ever hope to be the master of and find your place of irrevocable belonging.
Believe in your significance as a unique human being with something to offer the world that no one else can.
Trust in your own self worth as a human being, not necessarily a human doing, and I promise you, the rest will follow.